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1、精品文档How to make a happy family Abstract As we all know, nowadays the divorce rate has been increasing day by day. Divorce not only does harm to every member in the family, but also make a negative effect on society. Therefore, how to make ahappy life becomes more and more necessary. This thesis aims
2、 to introduce some methods to make a family fullof joys and affection.Key Words Relationship;husband and wife;parentsandchildren1. Relationship between husband and wife is a decisive factor.Astonished,thedivorceratehadincreasedbynearly 40 percent in 2009. What s worse, it shows anupward trend. Most
3、of them are the generation of 80s. Some of them married by impulsion and divorced just because of trifles in daily life. As a matter of fact,it s difficult to make a happy and permanent family. It requires us to think twice to get married before marriage and cherish joys and affection in the family
4、after marriage.1.1Before marriage精品文档精品文档Why do people get married? Andwhatpromotes amarriage between a man and a woman?Some peoplesay thattheygetmarriedjustbecausethey get older and older and face great pressure fromfamilyand society.Iftheyarestillsingle,theywillbe regarded as a monster and be isol
5、ated by peoplesurrounding.Somegirlsadmitthatthey marriedbecausethe person is handsome, rich or powerful. On the otherhand,boyswillmarryagirlwithherbeautifulappearance. Actually majority of people today gettingmarriedismorebasedonrequirementsmatchingappropriately.Thus,mostofthemdonthaveopportunityor
6、desiretothinkof truelovebetween menand women.But as far as I am concerned, true love betweenhusband and wife is still the most important factor tomake a happy family even if in advanced society today.At last they must admire and like each other. If a manand a womangetmarriedjustthinkingaboutsubstanc
7、e,material or appearance, they will meet a large numberof difficulties in their lives after marriage. Maybethey will be complaineven quarrelwitheach otherjust精品文档精品文档because triflesin dailylife.They also hate each otherbecausedifferentvalues.Therefore,peopleshouldthinksecondsandmake arationalanalysi
8、s,takeaccount of true love before marriage.1.2After marriageHow to preserve a wonderful and strong relationshipbetween husband and wife?There are some tips next.( ) Respect and love.Respectandloveisthebasisforspousalrelationships. As we all know, living in the world, ifonly you respect others and th
9、en others respect you.At school, it is true; in office, it is true, too. Notto say in family,familymembers have dinnerstogether,livetogetherevery day. They couldn t bear each othersooner or later without respect and love.( ) Be kind.Over time when we know someone a long time, we often start becoming
10、 unkind over the years. Thus, sometimes精品文档精品文档people take their partner for granted, thinking thattheyare a permanentfixture.Wewilluse impoliteevenhostile tone when we are upset and angry with theirspouse. And they willregretwithwhat they saidlater.Relationships between spouses that are good should
11、 bekind.You do work tokeep what you willbe regretlaterfrom happening all the time by thinking about how youwould talk to othersand whetheryou would speak to themin this way.( ) Be thoughtful.Thoughtfulness is another important factor in greatrelationshipbetweenspouses.When people justgetmarriedor ju
12、ststartdating,they do thoughtfulthingslike sendingcards,buyingflowers,or doingotherthoughtful things. But when days go, people may not beshowinglove as much as before.Infact,surprisingyourspouse and taking time to be thoughtful can help youto make sure you have a great relationship with yourspouse.2
13、. Relationshipbetween parentsandchildrenisan精品文档精品文档important factor.Children are the most important members who makejoysinafamily.Butitisbasedon the goodrelationshipsbetweenparentsandchildren.Can anunhappy even hostile child make laughter in a family?Orcan apeopleliveahappylifeinembarrassingconditi
14、ons?Theanswerisdefiniteno. How tokeepharmoniousandsatisfactoryrelationshipbetweenparents and children? Similarly, I have some advicenext.2.12.2 Parents should believe children and give them more freedom.Generational gap inevitably exists in parents and children. The generation of 80s and 90s seekfor
15、 individuality. They hate the traditional way thatparentsgive orderswhich they have to follow.They wantto make decision on their own things, they tend to dowhat they really like and play with their good friendswho theirparentsmay notlike.They liketowearpopular clothes and cut fashional hair style, a
16、nd so精品文档精品文档on. Parents usually can understand personalityofthemand thenhave involvementin theirdailylife.Parentswill force children to take part in summer school orother art training. They prohibit their children toplay computer games, go out withtheir friendsand wearfancy dress. Children seem to
17、have no freedom. Theirhave littleopportunity tomake decision.It isharmfulfor relationshipbetween parentsand children.Parentsshouldchangetraditionalopinionandbemoredemocratic.2.2 Children should understand and thank for parents.We often hear children s complaint thatparentsaretraditional and ignorant
18、. But every child knows thattheir parents love them so much. Whatever they do istobring theirchildrena brilliantfuture.Though theywillrequireyou to do somethingyou reallywant todo,such as playing the piano or writing course, you couldtellthemwhatyouthink,however,you can tmisunderstand their kindness
19、. You should be gratefulforthem thinkingof you so much. Sometimes parentswill精品文档精品文档buy something traditionalforyouorgiveyousomeconservativeadvice.Ifyourefusedirectlyevencriticizetheirbad sight,theymay fellsorrythattheyhave no value for you. It hurts them deeply. You cantellthem what your opinion i
20、s and encouragethem. It sourdutytoprotectparentsheartand createhappiness for them.Conclusion Ahappy family isbasedonthestrongrelationshipbetweenhusband andwife.Ofcourse,joyful relationship between parents and children isnecessary,too.In order tokeepwonderfulfamily,everymember offamilyshouldmake efforts.Itrequiresus tothinkinothers perspective;then theycanunderstandand respectothersbetter.Itisbeneficialfor strengthening relationship.精品文档
最新英语人教PEP(三起)三年级下册(修订)How-to-make-a-happy-family
