朱彦夫和他的家人

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1、朱彦夫和他的家人 为了张家泉村,重残之躯的朱彦夫呕心沥血,在整整25年里,他把自己仅有的伤残抚恤金拿出一部分用于帮扶村民、改变村貌上,把一个远近闻名的贫困村变成了富裕村。在他做出丰功伟绩的背后,是妻子及子女坚强的支撑。 朱彦夫和他的妻子陈希永一共生了6个孩子,5个女儿,1个儿子。整个大家庭是和睦温馨的,早在许多年前就被评为“全国美好家庭”。他的子女以及儿媳女婿都很孝顺,只要有空就来看他。很多双休日或过年过节,全家二十几口人就团聚在一起,平日安静的小院立刻充满欢声笑语。 朱彦夫:没有妻子,我活不到今天 朱彦夫参加抗美援朝受伤后回国治疗。住院期间,朱彦夫结识

2、了一位年轻女性。她叫陈希永,20岁,渔民的女儿,长得健壮、美丽。大海培育了她刚毅和吃苦耐劳的品格,不少男青年爱慕她,托媒上门提亲,都被她拒绝了。她的姑姑是沂源县民政局第一任局长,因生孩子也住在医院里,陈希永去医院侍候姑姑坐月子。在那里,陈希永认识了朱彦夫。 陈希永认识朱彦夫时,朱彦夫已是超重残疾人,但她认定朱彦夫是真正的男子汉,是英雄,跟这样的人过一辈子,即使受再大的苦也值得。 朱彦夫回村后当上了不拿薪水的村支书。每月他把36元伤残抚恤金全交到陈希永手里维持生活。那时孩子小,婆婆年迈,家里、地里有干不完的活,陈希永忙里忙外,从不埋怨。尤其春秋大忙季节,她浑身汗水和泥巴,总是

3、疲惫不堪。为了维持家里的生计,陈希永拼命养猪,最多时家里养过五头肥猪。她一年四季都领着孩子们到四野去扯猪草,以填饱那几只成天“哇哇”叫唤的猪的肚子。当第四只猪食桶烂了时,终于在那一年夏天,也就是1987年,朱彦夫从村支书岗位上退休,他们全家才告别了张家湾搬进了沂源县城。 陈希永因病去世后,朱彦夫久久陷入对她的思念中。 女儿们:父母亲的一生都是不容易的 女儿是父亲的贴心小棉袄,作为朱彦夫子女中最大的孩子,大女儿朱向华更多体会到的是父亲的不易。从最初的不能接受重残之身想自杀,到完全自理,甚至带领全村百姓走上致富之路,朱向华比其他子女更能体会父亲的艰难。当记者采访朱向华

4、时,只说了几句她就哽咽了。 然而,她说完了父亲再说母亲时,更是忍不住潸然泪下,为母亲的付出更感动于他们的感情之深。母亲当初嫁给父亲就抱定了照顾他一生的念头,所以当父亲为村里忙这忙那的时候,母亲就当了家里的整劳力,学着像男人一样推小车干重活。当父亲生病时,腰部有病的母亲喝上几口白酒借着酒劲背着父亲。前几年,母亲得了重病因疼痛晚上经常踢翻被子,70多岁高龄身患偏瘫等多种疾病的父亲硬撑着为母亲盖被子,却歪倒在母亲身上。母亲去世后,父亲一天没吃没喝。 四女儿朱向欣说,父亲经常对他们说,生命的方式有两种,一种是腐烂,另一种是燃烧。他说自己宁肯将生命全部燃烧,化成灰烬。还说:“我的生命

5、是战友们给的,是他们把生让给了我,把死留给了自己,如果没有他们的牺牲,就没有我的今天。如果不趁有生之年去追求,就对不住牺牲的战友,活着就没有什么意义了。” 儿子朱向峰:父亲对我最大的希望就是做个好人 朱向峰是朱彦夫唯一的儿子。他告诉记者,从自己记事起,父亲就用行动告诉他:要做一个好人,做一个不怕吃苦的人。他眼中的父亲是什么都能干的,所以自己在心里从未把他当做残疾人。父亲没有骂过他,更没有打过他,可是他从小就怕父亲,父亲要求的他一定会努力做到。因为父亲那种不怕吃苦、不怕艰难,不达目的誓不罢休的精神强烈地震撼着他。父亲在他心目里早就不怒而威,树立了极高的威望。 人生孝

6、为先。谁家有儿女不孝,朱彦夫就抽空前去说理,他说的道理很简朴:“现为子女,后为父母,现不孝父母,子女后必不孝；父母养育之恩终身难报；不孝顺者会受到大伙指责,今后就难立于大伙面前。”这些简单的道理被他变换成有理有力的生动言语,每一句都能扣准被教育者的心弦。他自己给大伙做了榜样。有事同老母商议,有好吃的好用的先让老母享用；外出带回新鲜食品都要先送村子里的老人尝鲜,如香肠、橘子、香蕉等。村子里老人活了几十年都没有走出过大山里,这些东西以前他们见都没有见过。他们都说:“吃了书记送的这些稀罕东西死了也不冤枉了。”朱向峰说,父亲是孝顺的,却又是先公后私的。当得知奶奶患了肝癌后,父亲倚在家门口的大树上沉痛地

7、对孩子们说:“要是别的病,砸锅卖铁也得把你奶奶治好了,可是这个病,真是没办法。”之后不久,老人就去世了。当时国家正提倡火葬,老人去世前似有预感地把父亲叫到眼前跟他说:“你当书记,我知道有你的难处,可是我实在不愿意你们把我烧了,你一定得答应我。”父亲当时答应了,老人心满意足地闭上了眼睛。这时因假肢无法下跪的父亲把帽子摘了下来,给奶奶深深地鞠了个躬,说:“娘,我对不住您。我是村里的带头人,我自己做不到的怎么让村里人去做?他们会怎么看我啊。”于是,奶奶成了全村第一个被火化的人。从那之后,火化才开始在村里推广开来。 “父亲对这个社会一直是心存感恩的。”朱向峰说,父亲虽然自己的付出只字不提,可

8、是却经常跟他说起别人对他的帮助。为了让村民用上电,父亲多年奔波在路途上。为了省钱,到了晚上父亲把假肢卸了当枕头,把护膝摘下来往身上一盖就凑合一宿。等他醒来,经常会发现身边多了好心人留给他的东西。 朱向峰参加工作后,父亲唯一的嘱托还是让他做个好人,要不怕吃苦。 如今,81岁的朱老有一个护工照顾,子女们更是排好班每天都来悉心照料。提及子女时,脸上会泛起由衷的微笑,因病魔缠身而带来的种种不悦,很快消散在微笑里。QcWA3PtGZ7R4I30kA1DkaGhn3XtKknBYCUDxqA7FHYi2CHhI92tgKQcWA3PtGshLs50cLmTWN60eo8Wgqv7XAv

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