兄弟情：与患埃斯伯格症的哥哥之间的故事

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1、兄弟情：与患埃斯伯格症的哥哥之间的故事(2)I know that Eric needs special help, but sometimes I resent that he gets to do special things, even though he misbehaves. And Mum and Dad spend lots of money to get help for Eric, which means that we dont have money left for fun things like holidays.我知道埃里克需要特殊的帮助，但是有时候即使他表现很差还能

2、受到特殊待遇，我就会觉得很生气。爸爸妈妈为了给埃里克治病花了很多钱，范文，这样我们就没有钱去享受诸如度假之类的乐事了。Sometimes I feel embarrassed about him. Erics 13, but he still likes to dress up like his favorite TV characters. He always wants me to play along, which is fine when we are at home. But I feel silly when he wants me to do it in public, like

3、 at the supermarket.有时候我会为他而感到很难为情。埃里克都13岁了，还喜欢打扮得像他最喜欢的电视剧里的人物一样。他总是要我也这样陪他玩。在家里的时候倒也没什么，可是在公共场合，比方在超市，他还要我这样，我就觉得太傻了。Sometimes I dont want to talk to my friends about Eric because I am embarrassed to tell them about the things that he does. I am afraid that people in my school will know that he is

4、 my brother, and they wont want to be my friends. But even though Eric bothers me sometimes, I miss him when he is gone. I enjoy being away from him for a couple of hours, but I hate it when he is away for a long time.有时候我不愿和朋友们议论埃里克，因为说起他做的那些事我会觉得很难堪。我怕学校里的人知道他是我哥哥，怕他们不想再和我做朋友。可尽管埃里克有时会让我心烦，假如他不在我还

5、挺想他的。分开他几个小时我会很开心，但是假如长时间分开他我就不乐意了。Eric doesnt have many friends. When I play with Eric, he wants everything to be his way and he likes to do the same things over and over again. He likes to watch the same TV programme, listen to the same songs, and play the same games. If he says or does something

6、to make you laugh, he will keep doing it even after it isnt funny any more. He never knows when to stop.埃里克朋友不多。我和他一起玩的时候，什么事情都要按他说的办，而且他喜欢重复做一件事情。他喜欢看同样的电视节目，听同样的几首歌，玩同样的几个游戏。假如他说了什么或做了什么把你逗笑了，尽管那已经不再好笑了，他还会老说老做。他从不知道什么时候该停。I feel sad that Erics life is so hard for him. I wish he had more friends.

7、I wish school were easier for him. I wish he didnt have to have tantrums. I wish he could be happy more of the time. Sometimes I even think that he has changed and I start to trust him. He does his homework or takes a shower without plaining, and then I think that maybe he will be all right after al

8、l.埃里克的生活真是太困难了，我为他感到难过。我希望他能有更多的朋友；我希望他能更加适应学校生活；我希望他不要总是发脾气；我希望他快乐的时候能更多一些。有时我甚至觉得他已经变了， 我开场信任他了。他做作业或洗澡时不再满腹牢骚，这时候我就想， 或许他终究会好起来的。Erics behavior upsets Mum and Dad, and I dont want them to be unhappy, so I often feel that I cant make mistakes or do anything wrong because they will end up being eve

9、n more upset. For example, when Dad cooks something new, Eric wont taste it. Sometimes he has a tantrum if someone asks him to eat something he doesnt think he will like. It can ruin the whole dinner. So I feel like I have to eat everything Dad makes and say Its great! even if I dont really like it.

10、埃里克的行为让爸爸妈妈很伤心。我不想看到他们不快乐，所以我常常觉得自己不能犯错误或做错事，因为那样会让他们更难过。比方说，爸爸要是做了什么新菜，埃里克是不会去尝一口的。有时候要是别人让他吃他觉得自己不会喜欢的东西，他就会大发脾气，那这一顿饭就算是毁了。所以我觉得爸爸做什么我就应该吃什么，哪怕我并不是真的喜欢，也要说味道棒极了;。Even though Mum and Dad tell me that I dont have to fix the familys problems, I still feel that I have to do it. Trying to be perfect i

11、s very exhausting.虽然爸爸妈妈叫我不必操心家里的这些事儿，可我觉得我不得不操心。要想把什么都做得完美真是太让人身心疲惫了。I spend even more time with Eric than Mum and Dad. I always feel that I have to watch him to make sure that hes OK. Its hard to have fun while you are worrying about someone else. Sometimes I feel like Im the older brother even th

12、ough Im not.我和埃里克在一起的时间比爸爸妈妈和他在一起的时间还多。我总觉得我得看着他点儿，别让他有什么闪失。当你担忧着别人时，就很难玩得开心。尽管我是弟弟，有时候却觉得我是哥哥。Deep down, I know Eric doesnt do it on purpose. I know that he feels scared when he is out of control, and I know he regrets saying mean things to me. So, no matter what Eric says or does, I always forgive

13、 him. I always still love him.在我内心深处，我知道埃里克不是成心要那样的。我知道当他无法自控时就会感到害怕，我知道他在辱骂我之后会感到内疚。所以，无论埃里克说了什么或做了什么，我都原谅他。我仍然会爱他。Eric can make me laugh so hard that I cant breathe. When I cry, he tries anything and everything he can think of to make me happy. He brings me stuffed animals and acts silly to make m

14、e laugh. He waits for me when Im busy and he likes to pick me up from the school bus. He takes me for rides on his skateboard. He tries to get me interested in things that are important to him. Eric helps me find things when I lose them. He always knows where I am and what I am doing. He worries if I am not where he expects me to be.In his own way, he watches out for me and tries to take care of me. He loves me.