英语论文64：中西方礼仪差异

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1、A Comparison Between Chinese Etiquette and the Western Etiquette中西方礼仪差异AbstractSince different countries have different histories and cultures, there are a lot of differences in the habit of conducts and the ceremony, especially between China and the West, the jokes and the mistakes caused by misund

2、erstanding is not unusual. This shows that the understanding of the different etiquettes between Chinese and the Westerners is absolutely necessary. In the office, to understand each others customer will be conductive to the exchanges between the countries. A person who understands others rituals an

3、d folk customs can be seen as respecting for others and can be easier to make a good impression on the other side. Along with the constant development of Chinese culture and the Western culture, Chinese ritual and the Western ritual are fusions. The Westerners have accepted the reasonable factors in

4、 Chinese culture and other important feelings. Chinese people have gradually accepted the advanced civilization of the Western culture and etiquette style. However, in real life, the etiquettes impact due to cultural differences between China and the West still exists. The paper explores the differe

5、nces between Chinese etiquette and the Western etiquette to make Chinese communicate with the Westerners more easily.Key WordsEtiquette; comparison; Chinese etiquette; the Western etiquette 摘要由于各国的历史和文化底蕴不同，各国人民在进行礼尚交往时的习惯也有不少差异。特别是中西方之间，礼仪上的差异很大，因为不了解这些差异而引起的误会和笑话也不少见。由此可见了解中西方交往的习惯差异是很有必要的。往大处来说，一

6、个国家无论是在政治上，还是在经济贸易中，了解对方国家的礼仪习惯，将有利于各国之间的交往。从小处来说，一个人了解对方的礼仪和民间习惯，是对对方的尊重且容易给对方留下好印象，以便交往的顺利进行。随着中西方文化的不断开展，中西方的礼仪正在相互融合，西方人逐渐接受了中国文化中重情感等合理因素，中国人也逐渐接受了西方文化中先进文明的礼仪和交往方式。但在现实生活中，由于中西方文化的差异对礼仪产生的影响还很多，为此本文探讨研究了中西方礼仪的差异，使中西方人们之间的交往更加容易。关键词礼仪；差异；中国的礼仪；西方的礼仪 Introduction Etiquette is the process and mea

7、ns to show respect to each other in interpersonal relationship by certain, common procedures. The Etiquette can be said to be a persons external appearance of inward cultivation and quality. Firstly, it can help people raise their self-cultivation. Secondly, it will promote social interaction and im

8、prove peoples interpersonal relationship. It also can purify the society. Since different countries have different historical and cultural backgrounds. There are a lot of differences in the ceremony, especially between China and the West. The understanding of the differences between Chinese etiquett

9、e and the Western etiquette are absolutely necessary. The paper explores the differences of Chinese etiquette and the Western etiquette. In modern society, it seems that the world is getting smaller and smaller, people are very active with frequent exchanges. Many countries are paying great attentio

10、n to combine international etiquette with national etiquette creatively. Etiquette is the common wealth of Chinese civilization and the Western civilization. . The Important Role of Etiquette and the Value of the Study of Chinese Etiquette and the Western EtiquetteEtiquette is an important part of h

11、uman life. It has many functions. So it plays an important role in human society.A. The Concept of Etiquette and the Reasons for Studying EtiquetteEtiquette is the process and means to show respect to each other in interpersonal relationship by certain, common procedures. Etiquette can be said to be

12、 a persons external appearance of inward cultivation and quality. From the aspect of communication, interpersonal etiquette can be regarded as a kind of art, a method of communication. It is a common respect for person and a friendly practice in interpersonal relationships. From the respect of trans

13、mitting, interpersonal rituals can be roughly divided into chief etiquette, business etiquette, service etiquette, social etiquette, foreign etiquette and several other major branches. Firstly, it can help people to raise their self-cultivation. Secondly, it will promote social interaction and impro

14、ve peoples interpersonal relationship. It also can purify the ethos of society. From the point of view of collectivity, etiquette can create the image, improve the customs ultimately and achieve the purpose of enhancing the economy and social benefits. Etiquette, which is an important part of the co

15、mpanys culture and the entrepreneurs spirit, is a major attachment of groups image. Almost all international enterprises have a high standard of etiquette and regard etiquette as an important part of groups culture. At the same time, it also can be regarded as the important software to obtain intern

16、ational fame. Therefore, studying etiquette is the trend of the times and the actual need of enhancing the competition. B. The Value of the Study of the Western Etiquette and Chinese EtiquetteSince different countries have different histories and cultures, there are a lot of differences in the habit

17、 of conduct and the ceremony, especially between China and the West, the jokes and the mistakes caused by misunderstanding is not unusual. In modern history, there are two stories concerning the misunderstanding of different etiquettes. The first one is about Li Hongzhang who was invited by Bismarck

18、 to a diner. Due to a lack of the Western etiquette knowledge, he drank the water which was used to wash hands after eating the fruit. Then Bismarck did not understand Chinese customer, in order not to make Li Hongzhang lose his face, he drank the water too. Other officers also followed him and refr

19、ained from laughing. Here is another story: a KMT officer and his wife went to the airport to meet a consultant from the United States. After the meeting, the consultant said “Your wife is really beautiful! The officer felt embarrassed and replied : “哪里，哪里！ It is just a polite way which is very comm

20、on in China for the kind of the words he addressed. But the clumsy interpreter translated : “哪里，哪里！ like “where, where? American consultant couldnt understand, he thought “I just praised his wife, and why he asked me where his wife is beautiful. Then, he said: “she is beautiful from head to toe. The

21、se two jokes are due to the lack of etiquette knowledge about the differences between China and the West. This shows that the understanding of the differences of the Western etiquettes and Chinese etiquettes are absolutely necessary. To the officers, to understand each others customs will be conduct

22、ive to the exchanges between the different countries. A person who understands others rituals and folk customs can be seen as respecting for others and can be easier to make a good impression on the other side. Along with the constant development of Chinese and the Western cultures, Chinese ritual a

23、nd the Western ritual are fusions. The Westerners have accepted the reasonable factors in Chinese culture and other important feelings. At the same time Chinese people have gradually accepted the advanced civilization of the Western culture and etiquette style. However, in real life, the impact on e

24、tiquette due to cultural differences between China and the West still exists. So the study of the Western etiquette and Chinese etiquette is very valuable and reasonable. The Difference Between Chinese Etiquette and the Western EtiquetteThere are three main differences between Chinese etiquette and

25、the Western etiquette. The first one is different origins of Chinese etiquette and the Western etiquette. In China, etiquette is equal to courtesy and ceremony. In the West, the word etiquette used to mean “keep off the grass. The second one is the differences of cultural backgrounds. The third one

26、is the differences of educations.A. The Origins of Chinese Etiquette and the Western EtiquetteChinese etiquette and the Western etiquette have different origins.1. The Origin of Chinese EtiquetteIn China, etiquette is equal to courtesy and ceremony. The essence of etiquette is the method of dealing

27、with people and the belief in ghosts and spirits. People consider that all things are controlled by the ghosts which can not be seen. Therefore, the etiquette is originated from the belief in ghosts and spirits, as well as a special form of belief in ghosts and spirits. China is a state of ceremonie

28、s. Back to five thousand years ago, etiquette used to be the core of traditional culture. Up to now, the etiquette has been really reformed. Thus it becomes rituals of modern civilization. Chinese etiquette in Chinese culture plays a “quasi-legal role. Etiquettes origins can be traced back to the ea

29、rly time of human beings. It should be said that at the very beginning of the history of the Chinese nation, etiquette was generated along with the human activities and with a primitive religion. Etiquette is the system to deal with the three relationships among the people, God and the ghosts. It is

30、 said that there were “five ceremonies in ancient China. In fact etiquette can be divided into two main parts, one is politics, and the other is life. Chinese legal system was bred during the establishment and implementation of the protocol. The essence of etiquette is the way how to deal with peopl

31、e and the belief in ghosts and spirits.2. The Origin of the Western EtiquetteIn the Western countries, the word etiquette used to mean “keep off the grass. Louis XIVs gardener noticed that the aristocrats were walking through his gardens and then he put up signs (etiquette) to warn them off. The duk

32、es and duchesses walked right past these signs. Due to this blatant disregard, the king of Versailles decreed that no individual was to go beyond the bounds of the etiquettes. The meaning of etiquette would later include the ticket to court functions that lists the instructions on which a person wou

33、ld stand and what was to be done. Etiquette, like language, has evolved, but it still means literally “keep off the grass. Until the 1960s, the importance of good manners was taught without question, but with the liberated 70s, it came a decline in the popularity of teaching proper etiquette. In 200

34、4, a new emphasis has been placed on returning to traditional values. Proper etiquette and protocol have given children and adults a vital tool that provides not only a competitive edge, but a sense of confidence.B. The Impact of the Western Culture and Chinese Culture on EtiquetteChinese and the We

35、sterners have different cultural backgrouds. Chinese etiquette and the Western etiquette are affected by their culture deeply.1. The Impact of Different Modes of Social Interaction on EtiquetteChinese cultures and the Western cultures have attached great importance to interpersonal relationship. How

36、ever, they were clearly different in exchanging ideas. Chinese are very warm and hospitable, which contained in relationships, being not seemed to be preserved. It is granted to understand the age, occupation, income, marital status, children and other issues with each other. The Westerners will gen

37、erally not do like that. Chinese will ask the price of goods which is bought by others directly. In the eyes of Chinese people, the price is only for items or rank. It is said the quality of goods. In Westerners eyes, if you do the same thing, it may be regarded as the inquiry of others economic con

38、ditions. It is also the privacy of the Westerners which should not be asked directly. If you want to know the price in details, you can only tactfully praise the achievement of the goods. Under such circumstances, the Westerners will tell you if it is cheap or expensive in general, but they normally

39、 do not tell you the price. Chinese prefer to ask “where are you going? when they meet others. This is just a form of calling in China. And if it happens in the United States, it might make the other feel embarrassed, because it belongs to others privacy you should not interfere in. In addition, the

40、 distance of the interaction between people can be divided into four types. There are close distance, individual distance, social distance and public distance. Chinese peoples kind relatively belongs to close distance. We often see two Chinese girls walking on the street arm-in-arm which is rare to

41、see in the West. The Westerners think that the Chinese are too close. On the contrary, the Chinese feel that the Westerners are very cold, arrogant, distant with others, and unfriendly. If Chinese people find that there is a thrum in others clothes, they will naturally pick it off. It is a bad behav

42、ior in the eyes of the Westerners. When Chinese meet a friend who wears very pretty clothes, he will stroke the clothes before asking price or texture. The Westerners will not do like that but directly praise his friends and his beautiful clothes.2. The Differences between the Personal Philosophies

43、of EtiquetteChinese and the Westerners have differences between the personal philosophies of etiquette.(1) Individualism of the West and Modesty of China.The Westerners are proud of the achievements of individuals. They never cover up their self-confidence, and are always proud of the accomplishment

44、 and the ecstasy of themselves. Conversely, the promotion of Chinese culture does not flaunt personal honor. Generally, Chinese people usually oppose or defy the people who are proud of themselves. However, the Westerners are dissatisfied with the Chinese self-denial or self-modesty. “Your English i

45、s very good! “No, my English is poor. For Chinese people, it is a modest response. But for the Westerners, it is not only denying himself but also denying people who appreciate him. This shows that the modesty of Chinese style is not feasible in the West.(2)Self-centered and Selfless EducationThe We

46、sterners have a strong sense of independence and self-center. One should be responsible for himself. In the Western society, every ones quality of life and survival depends on their ability. Therefore, each person must be self-struggle and put personal interests to the first place. They are not accu

47、stomed to caring for others, helping others or talking about the affairs of others. It precisely can be seen from the above that helping others or being helped by others in the West are some embarrassing incidents. Being helped by others expresses their inability and helping others will be considere

48、d as interference in others private affairs. Chinese code of conduct is “I am useful to the community, no matter whether it is useful to others. The value of the individual is embodied in the dedication. Chinese culture promotes a noble sentimentselfless devotion. In China, activities concerning oth

49、ers and giving others very careful consideration is a virtue. Therefore, Chinese people are willing to care about others family affairs. This would be regarded as intrusion in the Western countries.(3) The Spirit of Exploration and Innovation and the Spirit of MiddlebrowIn Western countries, people

50、are encouraged to be explorative, be innovative and do outstanding terrific cases that can not be done by our predecessors. Traditional Chinese culture requires people to be impartial, follow moderation. They are more willing to maintain the status quo and harmony. Of course, China has also made gre

51、at efforts on promoting innovation. However, the adventurous spirit still can not be comparable with the West.(4)Individual Freedom and TeamworkThe Westerners cherish individual freedom and independence. They are not willing to be subjected to any limitation. Chinese culture mostly emphasizes on col

52、lective interests. They subordinate their personal interests to advocate collective interests. They advocate unity, cooperation and unison.3. The Impact of Different Social Customs on EtiquetteIn Chinese culture, men are usually respected highly. This was mainly affected by the feudal system. Chines

53、e culture attaches importance on gender equality in modern society. But in some cases man is still superior to women. Women are still subjected to discrimination. In Europe and the United States as well as other Western countries, respecting on women is their custom. Lady First has become one of the

54、 main principals of communication in the Western countries. No matter in public places or in other places, men should take care of women, for instance, when lady want to shake hands, then man can be followed; man has to let lady sit down firstly in a dinner; lady orders dishes firstly, lady firstly

55、enters room, and lady firstly enters elevators. The Western etiquette is gradually changing into integration and unity and becoming more international.Moreover, as one of the special representatives of the Eastern countries in dealing with generational relations, China is the special representative

56、of the Eastern countries of treating the elders respectively and honorably. For example, many Chinese people are concerned that the person who takes care of elders is a good person. During the New Year and any other important holidays, the elders will have fun with their children together more than

57、usual. In Western countries, people have been advocating self-reliance, so the connection between parents and adult children are on the decreasing. It makes many elders often feel lonely and with a sense of misery in the Western countries.4. The Impact of Different Hierarchism of People Status on Et

58、iquetteChinese culture has a strong sense of hierarchism. In the originations or in the families, people who ignore the differences of hierarchism will be regarded as impolite people. The traditional concepts of monarchs and officials, father and son or other concepts are still deeply rooted in Chin

59、ese mind. Father has absolute authority of his son, and the teachers also have absolute authority of students. Family background still plays an important role in peoples lives. In such families, the elders help the young parents to take care of the children. The children grow up to help their parent

60、s to support the elders. They help each other. There is interdependence among family members and a closer family tie. The Western countries, except Britain and a few other countries, have a hereditary aristocracy and a rigid hereditary system. Most Western countries are advocating the concept of equ

61、ality. Especially in the United States, people advocate equality for all. Very few people will be proud of their illustrious family background. Few people will feel ashamed of themselves for being born in a poor family, because they know that their efforts would be crowned with success. There is a p

62、opular saying: “If working hard, even a cow boy can be president. There are no different grades in American family. They respect each other. Parents and children can address each others name directly. The concept of the family is rather weak. They are usually reluctant to make too many sacrifices fo

63、r the family.C. A Comparison of Chinese Etiquette Education and the Western Etiquette EducationEtiquette is the common wealth of the Western civilization and Chinese civilization. Etiquette education is an important part of citizenship education. Deeply analyzing the content, the method and the stat

64、us of Chinese etiquette education and the Western countries etiquette education, enhance the quintessence of world civilization and the civic quality. Education has important practical and theoretic significance.1. Etiquette Education in the Western CountriesEtiquette education in the Western countr

65、ies is the combination of etiquette education and civic moral education; etiquette education in the Western countries is the combination of etiquette education and moral education of school ceremonies.(1)The Combination of Etiquette Education and Civic Moral EducationThe concept of the Western word

66、“citizen originated in the ancient Greek political life of city-states. The concept of Citizens not showed only the persons position and status, but they are also called “noble person and “a moral person. In the thirteenth to the fourteenth century, the independent and self-governing campaign of European cities pr